By Tristan Taormino. This is the book to read if you are looking for a voice that is balanced, sensitive and sensible when tackling the thorny question of sexual boundaries in loving relationships. Opening Up is sure to open your mind. Tristan offers solutions for making an open relationship work, including tips on dealing with jealousy, negotiating boundaries, finding community, parenting and time management. This book will also allow you the answers to see if a open relationship is right for you. So go on a jounery to self discovery.